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Funeral service for Margaret "Shady Lady" Wolfenbarger will be 10:00 a.m. Monday, April 6, 2026 in Becker-Rabon Funeral Home Chapel.
Burial will follow in Highland Cemetery.
The service may be viewed by following the livestream link at www.beckerfuneral.com or by visiting the Becker-Rabon Funeral Home Facebook page.
Margaret Alice Wolfenbarger, affectionately known to many as the "Shady Lady," passed away on Saturday, March 28, 2026, in Lawton, Oklahoma, at the age of 77. She was born on June 21, 1948, in Lawton to Charles F. and Ethel M. (Stamper) Lewis.
Margaret was raised in Lawton, where she attended local schools and built lifelong connections within the community. On September 25, 1978, she married John Quincy "Shady Sam" Wolfenbarger in Geronimo, Oklahoma. He preceded her in death on January 12, 2010.
Margaret began her career at Wade's Cafeteria and later became a successful business owner alongside her husband. Together, they operated several well-known local establishments, including Shady Lady Loans, Love Loans, Maverick Pawn, and Shady Sam's Pawn.
She found joy in gardening, caring for animals, and collecting dolls, antiques, and Mickey Mouse memorabilia. Above all, Margaret's greatest devotion was to her faith and to her family, which remained the center of her life.
She is survived by her two sons and daughters-in-law, John Quincy Wolfenbarger, II and his wife, Stephanie Ann, and Jeffrey Julian Wolfenbarger and his wife, Heather Rosemary; four grandchildren, John Quincy Wolfenbarger, III, Kristen Taylor Smith, Toby Ray Brown and Shane Michael Brown; three great grandchildren, Harper Brielle Smith, Blair Haven Smith and Tatum Grace Smith; her brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Julian and Nancy Wolfenbarger; and several nieces and nephews.
Her parents, her husband, and two brothers, Charles Lewis, Sr. and Jeffrey Allen Lewis, preceded her in death.
An online guest book and sympathy cards are available at www.beckerfuneral.com
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