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Joseph Kenneth Totte, age 65, of Lawton, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, February 4, 2025 at his home. He was born on September 21, 1959, in Nuremberg, Germany, to Albert and Barbara Totte.
Joseph, affectionately known as "Joe," graduated from Lawton High School in 1977 and spent over 27 years working as a tire builder for Goodyear. His hard work, dedication, and commitment to his career were matched only by his devotion to his family. Joe's loving nature, sense of humor, and warm heart left a lasting impression on everyone who knew him.
Joe is survived by his children: son Chris Totte and wife Anna Totte, son Ryan Totte and wife Jess Totte, daughter Ashley Totte, son Kacy Totte and wife Emily Totte, and daughter Sierra Smith and husband Skyler Smith. He is also survived by his siblings: brother Dennis Totte and wife Melinda Totte, sister Denise Duffy and husband Jim Duffy, sister Donna Totte-Little and wife Linda Totte-Little, and sister Diana Wells and husband Calvin Wells.
Joe was a proud Papa to 17 grandchildren: Haylee Jones, Kylee Totte, Braelyn Jones, Reece Totte, Amberly Totte, Taylor Totte, Ostyn Totte, Hailey Chavez, Presley Chavez, Blaine Totte, Ryder Knight, Hunter Knight, Kesleigh Powers, Trace Totte, Stevie Smith, Ellie Totte, and Ally Smith. He is also survived by many nieces and nephews who loved him dearly.
Joe was preceded in death by his parents, Albert and Barbara Totte.
A service to celebrate Joe's life will be held at Lawton First Assembly on Monday, February 10, 2025 at 2:00pm.
Burial will follow in Highland Cemetery.
Visitation with family will be held at Becker-Rabon Funeral Home on Sunday, February 9, 2025 from 2-4pm.
Joe will forever be remembered for his kindness, humor, love for music, and the love he shared with and for his family. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who were fortunate enough to know him.
Flowers can be sent to Becker-Rabon Funeral Home.
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