Funeral Mass for Barbara A. Totte will be at 12:00 pm Friday, July 14, 2017 at Holy Family Catholic Church with Rev. Philip Seeton, Pastor officiating.

Burial will be in the Post Cemetery, Fort Sill under the direction of Becker-Rabon Funeral Home.

The family will greet friends Thursday, July 13, 2017 from 6pm until 8pm at the funeral home.

Barbara A. Totte, 82, Lawton, passed away Sunday, July 9, 2017 surrounded by her family.  She was born January 11, 1935 in Randolph, MA to Dorothy and Timothy McQueeney.  On May 12, 1956 she married Albert Totte and they were blessed with almost 58 years of marriage until his death March 25, 2014.  She truly enjoyed being a military spouse, the years she was involved with the NCO Wives Club and the many treasured and lifelong friendships of so many wonderful people.  She was employed at Fort Sill Federal Credit Union for more than 20 years until her retirement.  She was a member of the Knights of Columbus Women's Auxiliary and involved in Adoration at Holy Family Catholic Church where she attended for over 25 years.  As many people can attest over the years, their home was always open to company, and many enjoyed sharing holidays with the family.

Survivors include her children: Dennis Totte (Melinda), Joe Totte, Denise Duffy (Jim), Donna Totte (Linda Little), Diana Wells (Calvin), grandchildren: Dennis Totte (Sarah), Chris Totte (Anna), Ryan Totte (Jessica), Courtney Totte (Jamie), Erin Coleman (Aron), Andrew Duffy (Kate), Ashley Chavez, Madison Plunk (Cody), Kacy Totte, Logan Wells, Sierra Totte, 14 great grandchildren: Haylee Jones, Kyle Totte, Braelyn Jones, Reece Totte, Amberly Totte, Luke Totte, Taylor Totte, Ostyn Totte, Hailey Chavez, Mason Coleman, Presley Chavez, Elijah Duffy, Rylee Coleman and Blaine Totte.  She is also survived by her brother and sister-in-law Russell and Fran Heffernan of Henderson, NV, sister-in-law Beverly Serriello of Randolph, MA and many extended family members and close friends that all meant the world to her.

Barbara was preceded in death by her parents, Timothy McQueeney and Dorothy and Russell Heffernan, her husband Albert Totte, sister Dottie Nickels (Bill) and a great granddaughter Rylan Coleman.

A heartfelt thanks to all our family and friends who prayed, visited, called and provided support to us during this very difficult time.  Thank you to the entire staff at Brookridge Retirement Community for their many acts of kindness, help and support.  There are no words to express our sincere gratitude.  Many thanks to Dr. Carter, Dr. Coleman, the Heart and Vascular Center, and the nursing staff at Comanche County Memorial Hospital.