Funeral service for 2LT Tobias C. "Toby" Alexander, 30, Lawton, will be 2:00 p.m. Wednesday in Cameron Baptist Church. Lieutenant Alexander died May 20 in Afghanistan. Arrangements are under the direction of the Becker Funeral Home & Cremation Service. Toby was born June 8, 1981 in Wesel, Germany, to William F. and Heike Gtze Alexander. He lived in Germany until the age of eleven and moved to the Lawton area in 1992. He was a 1999 graduate of Elgin High School. He married Amanda Barber on February 3, 2011 in Lawton. Toby was a graduate of Cameron University through the ROTC program with a bachelor's degree in interdisciplinary studies. Toby enjoyed many things in life but particularly enjoyed being at the lake. He is survived by his wife, of the home; three children, Angelicia, Kevin and Lexie, of the home; his parents, Bill and Heike Alexander, Lawton; a sister and brother in law, Jennifer and Derek Van Treese, Broken Arrow, Oklahoma; his maternal grandparents, Dr. Werner and Christa Gtze, Wesel, Germany; his paternal grandparents, William E. Alexander, Brodhead, Kentucky, and Cherie Bale, Hudson, Florida; father in law and mother in law, Randy and Lisa Enix, Lawton; nephews, Alexander and Adrian; several aunts, uncles and numerous cousins. Memorial contributions may be made to the Cameron University ROTC for the Lieutenant Tobias Alexander Memorial Foundation, 2800 W. Gore Blvd., Lawton OK 73505. The family will greet friends from 6-8 pm Tuesday at the funeral home.